About Victim-Blaming

Victim-blaming occurs when a victim is assigned responsibility for the wrongful act done to them rather than blaming the perpetrator of the act.

The most classic example of this is blaming a rape victim for what they were wearing when the rape occurred.

What is Rape Culture?

Rape Culture is an environment in which rape is prevalent and in which sexual violence is normalized and excused in the media and popular culture. Rape culture is perpetuated through the use of misogynistic language, the objectification of women’s bodies, and the glamorization of sexual violence, thereby creating a society that disregards women’s rights and safety. Victim-blaming is a huge part of why rape culture is allowed to continue.

Examples of Victim-Blaming

Victims of sexual and domestic violence are often blamed for the abuse they endure.

"Why didn't you fight back?"

"It's not like he hit you."

"Boys will be boys!"

"You shouldn't have gotten drunk."

"Maybe you shouldn't have provoked them."

"If she's so terrible, why do you stay with her?"

"He'd never do that, he doesn't seem like the type."

Victim-blaming is inaccurate, damaging, and unacceptable.

• It marginalizes, invalidates, and isolates the victim-survivor

• It perpetuates rape culture

• It reinforces manipulative tactics that abusers use to gain and keep control over their victim

• It makes it harder to come forward and get help

Most importantly, victim-blaming allows abusive people to perpetuate relationship abuse or sexual assault while avoiding accountability for their actions.

What Can I Do About It?

• Challenge victim-blaming statements when you hear them

• Do not agree with abuser’s excuses for why they abuse

• Let survivors know it is not their fault and provide them with resources and support

• Recognize that victim-blaming is often rooted in racism, sexism, or homophobia

• Recognize and avoid victim-blaming in the media